Nothing can prepare you for having a baby. At least your first. In fact you do a whole bunch of other stuff to keep yourself from thinking about it. You paint you clean. You Shop. Cribs, and strollers. Car seats and bottles. None of that can prepare you for who your child is.
Coffee
Don’t worry nobody is saying you won’t be able to have your 10 mins to make coffee and enjoy it. What people are saying is while your enjoying that cup of coffee your thoughts will be different. Not only the thoughts but why those thoughts are there. Your Kid. Perfection.
No your kid is not going to be perfect and neither are you, but we want to be as close as we can. We want to bring meaningful life skills that help our kids progress in life. Not just in the moment.